Beyond Blogging, Essay Projects

In this project, I explore the paradox of how global digital communication has intensified tribalism and weakened our sense of belonging. I argue that as online interactions replace face-to-face connections, communities become siloed and we define ourselves by our in-groups, leading to hostility towards outsiders. Drawing from my personal experience and foundational concepts like Dunbar's number, social sorting, and social network theory, I aim to analyze this phenomenon. The core solution I propose is to revitalize belonging by actively engaging in one's physical, local community. I suggest that despite the effort required, participating in real-world activities—from small neighborly gestures to organizing local events—builds more lasting and satisfying relationships than online engagement. My ultimate message is that the tangible, mutual benefits of real-world connections are the most effective way to combat digital alienation, summarized by the adage "go touch grass."

This project is dedicated to exploring the complex and often hidden history of the gay leather subculture. My goal is to reclaim narratives silenced by government persecution, societal shame, and the AIDS epidemic. This is not just a recitation of facts, but a journey into the lived experiences of individuals, shaped by personal anecdotes and historical documents. I intend to use this platform to respectfully explore difficult topics, acknowledging that history is a subjective tapestry of unique experiences. Believing that building our history is a collaborative effort, I invite you to share your perspectives and stories with me directly via email. Ultimately, this project is my testament to the community's enduring power, resilience, and self-expression—a celebration of a culture that has defied erasure.